It’s a party, not a performance.

Please don’t expect an aisle, a bouquet toss, or assigned seating.

We’re just a bunch of unhinged optimists celebrating everything we’ve achieved so far.

Bring your swimsuit, bring booze, bring wishing stones, and read more below.

faq

  • We would love for you to arrive on Friday afternoon and depart on Monday morning! But we understand if that’s not possible. We’ll be around to enjoy the full weekend.

    The main group dinner will be Saturday evening, but there will be casual meals, activities, adventures, and hangouts the rest of the time.

  • Fly into Palm Springs International Airport (PSP). It’s the closest and most convenient. From there, it’s about a 20-minute drive to the ranch. If you’re flying into LAX, ONT, or SAN, expect a 2–3-hour drive through the desert (which tbh could be worth it anyway.)

    We recommend renting a car, since rideshares can be limited once you’re outside Palm Springs proper.

  • Listen up buttercup: we’ve taken care of the accommodations. Most guests will be staying on-site at the ranch in shared rooms and houses.

  • BYOB AND BE GENEROUS!!!!!

  • We’re covering the ranch stay and meals throughout the weekend. We do lovingly ask that you cover your own airfare and car rentals, please.

    If you’d like to contribute toward food or the ranch rental, we’ll gladly accept it. It’s completely optional and pay-what-you-want. We just want to be with you!Item description

  • Desert dinner party! There’s no formal dress code, but you should probably avoid sandals and high heels and bring a jacket for cool desert evenings. Bring sunscreen and a swimsuit!

  • We’ll share a detailed itinerary closer to the date, but here’s the gist:

    • Friday: Arrivals, welcome drinks, and dinner

    • Saturday: Desert walks, rest, hot spring/pool time, the “non-ceremony,” and our main dinner celebration

    • Sunday: Lazy brunch, possible hot springs or desert outing

    • Monday: Farewells and departures :-(

  • NO. If you feel compelled to give us something, please contribute to food or the ranch rental.

  • Space is limited, and the desert is dangerous. Please, no +1s, dogs, or little ones.

  • Desert Hot Springs has a desert climate with very hot summers and mild winters.

    January is the coldest month with average highs around 67ºF, and lows around 45ºF. Bring a jacket!

    January is also the wettest month, with about 1.24” inches of precipitation (which is about how much Seattle gets in 2-5 hours of heavy rainfall.)